At this time of year, while we are all in the midst of the season's greetings ritual, it is worth stopping for a moment to remind everyone that empty ritual is meaningless. The last thing I want to be perceived as is "Grinch-like," but I can't help but notice all of the inane, silly, and meaningless cards and holiday emails I'm getting.
It reminds me of a lesson my mom taught me. As I child, I was known to be slightly impulsive. My "act first, think second" habit caused more than a few things to break. I learned (quickly) that if I apologized quickly the punishment would be far less than it would have been otherwise. I became really good at saying "I'm sorry." Eventually my mom taught me that merely saying I'm sorry didn't mean anything if I didn't act sorry. At that point, saying I'm sorry no longer had a positive effect. I learned that empty words were worthless.
Today I got the following email message:
What's wrong with this you ask? I've never done anything with them, I don't think about them, and I have no loyalty to them. All this message did was highlight how little they actually care about their customers.
Now, if this were happening just during holiday season, I wouldn't comment on it. However, these empty acts happen all the time, and in today's attention-deficit world, businesses can't afford empty communication.
